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Riven is my SL partner and my boy since months. We are virtual friends since two years. Never i have been so close of a man, of a boy. We have explored deeply the mind each other. Riven now is stronger in RL. He has learnt a lot and me too.

Very few people know who is Riven because he is on SL just for me. He likes to play with an other avatar, very hard sexual games...but this is just sexe. Since two months now, Riven is not often online. I was a bit sad, surprised, i have missed him. I was starting to think that i was not important for him...he is a young student in RL...so he has so much to discover in RL.

I was starting to think that SL is a dangerous tool. We are playing with our feelings...but this is just a game, a roleplay....all in fact is wrong.

And this morning i have received a wonderful E mail of my Riven, explaining me why he was not online. I was like a young teen reading his e mail. He wrote me that, i was always important for him, that he loves deeply and for ever me but that he wanted to stay for a while out of SL. It is important for him to meditate. He used very strong and wonderful words...i have tears in my eyes now.

This afternnon, i feel that my boy is becoming my Master (lol). He has found the words for making me stronger. His words touched my heart and gave me hope. Doubts are now out of my mind.

I have no wasted my time with him. I wanted him to grow...and now my puber is a handsome man with a nice soul, independant, his heart is full of love and energy.

So all is not dark on SL. All is not wrong. You can meet wonderful people and they may become your friends, virtual and real for years and years. I feel really better and full of energy now.

Thanks my Riven...my Math because this is your RL name.

I love to landscape and to build and my heart is for ever in the desert. Step by step Silvertree became a green sim. At start, it was a mixt between the Tahari and Tabor. Step by Step, sands, tahari's build have been removed.

I can' create freely in this sim what i have in my mind.

So i have bought a new sim, a homestead for me and my boy and for friends, it was very very cheap. I wanted to build a new Red Rock Oasis (the rocks and the mountains are red). Loki Lusso built it last year and it was wonderful. So i have tried to build, not the same city, but a nicest. I am really happy of what i have built. It took me time, it was not easy to find the good textures for the landscape, to build a dune. I have readen a lot about dunes, don't laugh.

I have built a tavern, a scribery, a fort, houses and so much..it is a paradize BUT:

The name of red rock is still used: SHIT and by George Barracuda, i am not lucky. It was a very bad new because since the start i am a tashid and Red Rock is my city. His sim is very ugly but i can't steal this name. I was puzzled and i choosed, after a research the name of Oasis of Four palms. It is a kavar's oasis..ennemy of Red Rock. I imagined that my mother was a kavar and that i returned back to her oasis. It was nice BUT....the name was used. I discovered that two week ago. SHIT SHIT SHIT.

So, what could i do? Klima is the only free name. I made research on SL, it seems it is ok. It sounds strange because last year George built a sim called Klima...but this sim does not exist now.

So Klima is my sim. I am the first surprised but why not...of course the sim is very different of the Norman's book. We have a beach, palms, water...but it is SL!

Klima, located on Dark Fire sim, exist now. i will may be buy the name but it is expensive.

I am not sure people will come and live in. My pleasure was to build it and to have a new home. It is a homestead, alone, with a low trafic, but now i have a home. Nobody could destroy it, to make my live difficult, to manipulate people for fighting me, i am the owner. I am the master of my homestone and that is great.

It is not easy to be a thief. I like to go and to steal objects, to spy and i love my outlaw's family. But there is a problem:

Each day, other players who are not thieves give you hate, make you feel their hate for you. You are an ennemy and all is allowed for breaking you. Worse, There is a confusion about your role play and who you are in RL.

Some use mental weapons against you. They lies about who you are to others players. They use some mistakes you did and these mistakes become who you are, the mistakes define you. This tactics is a mixt of ooc and rp. This is very unfair and i know that i am not the only one to live that. .

Last day a player told us (a tabor warrior) "shut up, this is my city, you don't have the right to tell me that i don't respect the rules of the city"....of course this man was wrong (he wanted to trade in the market...the market is not done for that): this is just unfair and a lack of respect for the outlaws players, he was agressive because he was not able to recognize he was wrong and did a mistake. It is a bad mixt between OOC and RP.

In my sim for example, i am "the enemy". I understand why now, outlaws are living in their own sims. I am builder too and i have rebuilt the most part of the sim. I never heard since i am thief a "thanks" for your builds and a "what you have build is nice". I just read sometime "i don't like this, what you have built has no sense"...this is very agressive.

Just a last words: with no outlaws, no rp, only boring...

I have tried to think and to write in this journal about what means the words "master" and "slave". We have all a great imagination and fantasies about theses words, we use them easily, but we never define them.

Recently a boy told me, now i have a "true" master. He was very proud of himself. At first, he forgot that a boy is not allowed to judge a free :)...(i am a bit tired with boys who never respect their rules and who like to challenge frees). At second i asked him to define what is a "true" master. I am always waiting the answer.

If you are able to define these words, you are able "to live" these words. To name a word is to control it and to have power on it. Very often, people use words, but it is like the winds in the fog: it means nothing, they don't know about what they talk. Players create words, it is very nice to read them, you feel that the men who use theses nice words are very wise, very important and know a lot...

They steal words.

So what is a "true" master and a "wrong master"? What does means this words? It could be interesting to explore this question, we have all a lot to learn about this point.Theses words are very very importants(master and slave)because we are gorean. When you become a boy or a master, you take a great responsability. You link your live with the live of an other man. You can't allow yourself to be superficial.

If you use words and that you are not able to explain them, it means that you steal them...it means you are playing with other players minds...you try to make them believe you are "important", you know "a lot", but...it is just a lie.

I take an other example:

Others players tell you "i love you"...but they don't know what theses words mean. My boy Riven used this word too easily at the start. A lot of players don't really love you, they love to use you and manipulate you. It is a bit different. They don't love you, they love themselves at first, they are looking for their owm pleasure and, because they are not stupid, they hide that with faked words. Some are so perverts that they believe that their faked words are true one.

They steal words and when you really love a man and that you want to tell him "i love you", theses words are old, too much used by faked people and the value of theses words become cheap with few values.

When you are able to define words, you become free. If you do that, you have power on your own life, it becomes difficult to manipulate you and to loose you. Since two years now, i am gorean, i have learnt a lot (thanks to Patrick and to Math). I understand now that i was very innocent. I trusted faked people. It took me a lot of time to find the right definition of theses words...and to really become free.

I feel there are 3 types of masters...

The first is the most basic: i call him the "top". He is a top, use sexually a boy when he wishes. He plays with boys in dungeons, imagine dirty games. He is a sexual addict, a bit pervert, a bit sadistic. He loves sometimes to mixt Sl and RL games...it could be fun if it is well done. This first level is funny...but with this, you are not a master. You are a man who likes BDSM games. You are a man who like to control boys and to play with them. You can find top in urth dungeon on sl.

The second is interesting. I call him the "master". i use a small m. This time you manage the boy. You live with him 24H/24. If the boy is not obedient, you punish him. You teach him how to serve, to be polite, how to respect other masters. The boy become a perfect tool, at the end, he serves you perfectly.

The third was always here inside myself. But this one is the most exotic. I call him the teacher, the trainer or the athenian master. This time, you observe your boy and you want him to explore some feelings. You want him to become stronger. You train him for. You are his confident, you listen him, you help him to grow, you manipulate his mental because you want him to understand something which is important for him. Your are his guide, his mentor. You help him to understand his feelings. With one word, you are able to give him the light, the key...with you and because your help, your boy is no more confused. You are the man who teach to his novice how to become a man.

and now...imagine you mixt the types...

1+2+3 is for me the perfect Master.

The chackles-restrain live are the second tool of mastering i use. they are fantastic tools for submitting a boy and for helping him to become a perfect boy. But you must use them carefully and with love because they are powerfull. You must read carefully the notice too and always lock them.

With theses chackles, you have the total control of the avatar of your boy (except about money, thanks to god). If you want to blind his screen you can, if you want him to not teleport, it is possible. If you want him to not chat with other players, you can do that. The boy is really your property. All is possible, the boy is your toy. So chackles are different from the gorean collar. With chackles you must use restrain live.

And that is dangerous. You play this time with the mind in RL of the player. The punishment (to be blinded 2 days) will be more than a role play. The screen will be really black for 2 days. So the boy...the player i mean will really feel the punishment and live it.

Chackles help a boy to feel what is submission, to explore deeply this feeling and that is why this tool is interesting. What is important is not to punish the boy. What is important is that the boy know that you are able, you have the power to really punish him deeply. Some boys implore their master for wearing chackles and i understand very well why. It helps to be a good boy. Very few gorean master use them but some urth masters use them.

When i was boy (an urth boy), i was wearing chackles. Of course you can imagine that i was a strong boy, very difficult to manage. I was beginner too, i was scared. The chackles helped me to feel a boy, to be obedient and to respect my master. It was difficult at start to understand well how to use them...you have to be patient. To go step by step.

So, i am not a sadistic master who want to control his boy, to punish him deeply, to hurt the real feeling of the player..for submitting him. No...it is a danger, but it is not my way. You must always take care of the limits of your boy and to listen him with all your love. I talk a lot with my boy (Cf. the diary). Chackles are the good tools, the perfect gift for a boy. Of course a pervert could damage deeply his boy with these tools.

Since my boy wear chackles, he feels free, relax and in peace. When i was boy, i felt exactly the same. To be under the total control of a man is to be free....is not it interesting? But this time, it is not words for roleplay...you "live" it, you "feel" it.

It is may be the most wonderful gift i gave to Riven (my boy): with me he feels feelings which are very close from the real live feelings. That was my goal.

The new Silvertree of Tabor is finished. It was difficult to rebuild the sim. At first, faked builders did not help us a lot, what they have created was ugly. Leo "the Lord of ST" trusted them and it was a big mistake. i told him that he was wrong, but he did not listen me, hurting me deeply. I was very sad to see how ugly was our sim, i was hurt deeply. The sim was beautiful and all was destroyed because of them. I have spent a lot of time to recreate new gardens. It was very difficult.

I can say now that Silvertree of Tabor is again the jewel of Tabor. The sim is very nice. Jeslow Aeon build for us (saber's castle and public palace). We have a lot of renters again, the traffic is raising up. we have fights now, visitors. Hope is raising again.

We are now 5 co-owners: so we have no more money problems. The fees are shared with equity this time and i don't pay 70% of them now, just 20%. I feel better. That means people love our sim and want to be partners...it is great, it gives us energy.

We have no more prims problems too...that is a very good new too. I feel we are again in a good way. We have all learn a lot, especially because we did mistakes.

The traffic of ST sunday was 2100, tabor 3000...that means we are not so bad for a low primmed sim.

kiss

The first tool of mastering is to use e mail (lol). It is a good idea to ask to his boy to write his journal, and to ask him to send it by e mail. it is may be the best tool i know and i blame the man who told me that a journal was not necessary and dangerous .

At first, the boy has to write what he thinks important for him to write. So he has to think about him, about his master, about what he did. He needs to put name on his feelings. it is very important. To put a name on his feeling help for understanding himself better, for knowing himself better. So your boy after writing his journal will feel better. It is a tool for him to be stronger, to find positive energy.

At second it is a wonderful tool for a master: by this way you can "control" perfectly your boy. if something is wrong, if your boy does not understand something, if he is confused...you know that immediately and you may help him. (to "control" means to guide him in my mind)

i answer very often to my boy with e mails...it is important to do that. SL is for roleplaying. E mail is for going deeply in questions. It takes times of course. You do that only if you wish to help your boy to become stronger, to grow. If you have young boys, this tool is perfect (i have young and strong boys, all alpha slaves).

And sometimes you have some very good surprises because your boys teach you a lot. Harley Lusch sent me yesterday a nice e mail. He wrote me that i was a "great" master (lol) and that i must not listen people who try to put doubts in my mind about this (and to stop to listen them). The same day, Riven told me that he loved me, because i was a "great" master too and that i must stop to think that i am not the best one. He told me that now, since he is my boy, he understands well what is a master and what is a man who like BDSM...

Don't think at first i am flattering myself (lol). My boys teached me a lot: at first they felt that some people who are close to me like-want to put doubts in my mind...it is interesting: now i take care SL and RL. So they have observed me and other masters, they have tough deeply about who i am, who are other masters. And they make me things clear: mastering is a thing, BDSM is an other thing...you can be a master with no BDSM game, you can be a BDSM player and not to be a master. I confess i was a bit confused about that.

I use this tool(the journal) with love and only with love. I never blame my boys about what they wrote. i respect them deeply. If i answer, it is only because i feel they are confused about something and that they need my help. I don't use the journal for spying them, for knowing what they did: NO! No! NO! the journal is for me a tool for reading what they have in their mind, for understanding better their feelings and for discovering who they are.

I will end this paper by this. Players don't respect well others players, who they are, theirs works. There is a lack of honesty on SL. Too much people like to manipulate others. I hate this. For me, people who do that are not masters...because a master has honour...

Some masters are naturaly dominant and are tops. They act and react naturaly. They like to posses a boy, to make him yelling of pleasure and crying. The search of their pleasures has create in their mind some natural tools for dominating boys. They like to control a boy, to use him for their pleasure, to guide him, to make him growing. The baddest are egoistic men, the best protect their boys and give them always pleasure: physical pleasures and mental pleasures.

If you are not a natural master, it is not obvious to learn how to dominate a boy with a natural master as teacher, that is my hypothesis. Because they dominate naturally, very few of them are able to explain how they do that, what tools they are using, why they do that. Some have though about it but they are not able to give you the keys. For example:

I remember one who told me "i have taken something from my boy and i have put in my boy something of me, so now he is mine". It is nice words, but with that, your hands are full of a mistery: what does means exactly? Some use the words "i have broken my boy"...yes and? What does theses words means...it sounds very evil? The best is "you need to be strong for becoming a master"...

They often talk with pics but they can not share more with you. it is not their fault, it is very difficult to name with the good words the tools of mastering.

Some others masters are not naturals masters. They have learnt how to be a master. A lot of them were boys, it is a good experience if you have found a good master. They have observed their master, tried to understand what he was doing with them and they have identify, alone, the tools. It needs to think deeply about what is mastering and slavery; it needs to do all for understand his own feelings too. Why i feel that? why i wish that? It is very important to talk with his master and to ask him, "why are you doing that? " "why i am confused? why i feel that?". To talk with his master is the first thing to do for a boy. It is a long way, it needs to be patient.

We need deeply a school for masters, a lot of boys are hurt by men who play the masters. But are masters able to do that? I am not sure....and if you think that all is in the books of Norman (Gor), you are wrong. Gor is the fantasy of Norman...it gives you wrong keys. Gorean masters do big big mistakes with their boys...that is why a lot of them often change of masters.

I will try in the next chapters to name the tools i know, but i am not sure i will be able to do it well in english.

I have a new boy, he was before my love, my partner, he is called Riven. I love him more and more, each day with him is a wonderful day. I was puzzled when he asked me to be his Master (again). I thought about it some days and i answered him "yes". Now the boy is perfectly broken.

I know what he needs and nobody except me will give it that because it is my wish and my pleasure. He will be a slave in Gor but not a pure gorean slave. I don't trust a lot the gorean way. The gorean master has all powers and no duty, i can't be agree with that. A gorean Master can play with his boys, break them and sell them like toys: it is a shame. There is no honor to do that. There is no honor to punish a boy and to put doubts in his mind about himself just by pleasure.

Duty and honor, protection and love, a lot of masters don't know theses words. They are selfish, sadistic men. To be a master is to give, so the boy will be able to give himself with no doubt and no fear.

The gorean tools are dangerous, i prefer the urth tools. I like a lot the athenian master tools, especially because my boy is a young man, because he needs a strong mental guidance and my moral authority. I mixt the ways and choose what i think the best for my boy.

I am in peace, i feel very well, i think often about my boy and what i will do with him. It is a nice experience.

I think i will nedd a day, to understand who i am, because i could be a great boy or a great master (now). All is interesting, all is nice. All depends the parners i have in front of me. I like to be the boy of a great Master, i like to be the master of a wonderful boy...some think that people are "naturaly" a boy or "naturaly" a master. I think for me it is the meeting, the feelings i have for a man who make me a free, a boy, a master. "All is built, nothing is done" Bachelard (a great french phylosopher).

Riven is madly in love of me (me too but i am wiser than him), he trusts me. It is important for him to have a material symbol of our love. Yesterday he did the blood brother ritual. He wanted to prove me his love, he wanted something too from me: my blood? a ring? a paper? something who showed him that our love is something very important. He was a bit confused.

I don't need that but he needs that and i respect him. I told him that a ring is not important, what is important is the feeling, he understood be but he is more materialistic than me, he needs to touch or love with an object. Our love is special, i love the RL player and he loves my rl personality, i love to read his mails, i love to talk with him on SL too. We role play few, very few. Our house is on Gor, but it is "an accident", he is not gorean.

So i offered him to become my SL partner. I don't want him to be my FC, because he is not gorean, because we don't role play, our love is out of Gor. I want to offer him something i have never offer before. I want to give him this gift. he will be my first partner on SL...and the last one.

It is right that i have loved some men on SL, i fall often in love.I like to be the man of a man who needs me as i need him. I like to dominate my man. I like to be dominated too, to hide myself in his arms and to listen his advices.

With Riven, i am the partner of a young man and both of us discover, at the same time, new feelings, especially about sex. And it is very funny. We share new experiences and we try after to understand what happened. We do it with love, we have never hurt each other. We are two explorers...that is why our love is fantastic. We are hand to hand on the same way. We surprise each other a lot. he is very inventive, he is growing and growing. He plays too with my mind as i play with his mind too. He likes to play in prison, he likes to be prisonner and to be raped by policemen. I am not jealous, often, he told me what happened, what he liked...and i do the same too with him. We share our intimity and the most deeply feelings. I have never shared that in my live before. I have never speak to a man so freely.

That is why Riven will be my partner. I take care of him SL and RL. for me, Sl is a tool for him to grow...but i don't want that his SL kills his RL. He knows that, all is clear, we are at the border of the wisdom but we are on the good side of the mountain and we will be very careful to not explore the other side.

kiss, Sl is fantastic

Riven is wonderful, because i has never share with a (young) man so much feelings. We are discovering each other, step by step. We try to understand why we are so madly in love, we talk often about our feelings and our soul. We talk about our fantasies with no shy and that is very new for us. I don't judge him and he does not judge me. I understand his dark fantasies, i understand why he likes them and i do what he likes (if he implores me, naked, licking my feet and crowling to me lol). We have fun with sexe but it is more than sexe. It is fantastic because, before january, we were close friends (not lovers). Now we explore our sexuality with no taboo. We explore the unknow part of each other with no lies. Each time we are surprised, each time we cry with pleasure and push our limits with love and kindness. We are domesticating each other.

I love deeply to use him as a sexual object and to dominate him hardly...for my (and his) pleasure, in dungeons. I do it with no doubts.i love him so i am not weak, he feels it and...it is may be the biggest surprises of his life to discover that i am able to be, sexually, a hard dominant male. I was not able to do it last year. We do it out of Gor, i don't like the gorean way. My barrers with my man are down now...except one: respect. What is fun is that he does the same with me. I am able to be sub to him and, he is very good ... he is a bit too sweet (lol).

But there is no hurt...our love grows and grows. He meets other men too and me too, and i like to know he has fun with other men. It gives him ideas. He explains me why and what he did it. He likes to play in jails the prisonner or the policeman. I confess it is very very fun...i want to be a prisonner and to be in the hand of a rought guard too (laughs)!!!

But more than sexe we love the soul of each other at first. That why sexe is now fantastic. It is the thesis of Norman (imaginative sexe). The best for Norman is to explore dom and sub's fantasies with you partner. I agree. Riven believed it was not possible to share hard sexe with his lovers, after an hour in a dungeon with me, he thought not the same (i wonder why he think i am an angel). It is right it is not usual to make crying his love. But when you are able to do it, the mixt of feelings (love, fire in body, cum, pains) is...wow...fantastic, strong, incredible.

So now, when we meet each other, we want to see the other kneeled at our feet and at the same time we want to lick the boot in front of us and to wear a collar...and we roleplay it very well.

I love you my Riven, i love to hug you softly, i love to talk with you...looking at you eyes in eyes...i love to see you licking my feet...and i love you when you leash me on our bed.

I write it with no shy, i don't mind about the gorean way, i don't care to not respect the rules. if needs, i am able to resist if a man want to sub me by strenght and riven too. To be one with his true feelings is not to be weak, it is to be a free man. I am glad to be myself, to be one and i thank Riven for this gift.

I have found that on the net...it was writen by a kajirae...sometime it is a great moment when you find on the net papers which confirm your intuition

In a earlier post, I wrote about alpha slaves. More specifically, I wrote how a Master said that he thinks I am one. So of course I went on a quest to learn more. In BDSM, alpha slaves seem to be ones who dominate the more submissive beta slaves. But on bondage.com, I found a definition that describes me pretty well.

Alpha slave:

“I don’t remember who told me what I was. It was a casual conversation, with me fraught with frustration at my inability to know what kind of
submissive I am. I remember Him chuckling and saying..Hell girl, that’s easy. knowing you as I do, you are an alpha submissive! And
then to my amazement, He explained what an alpha sub was. I was floored but things started clicking, falling into place..Whoopee i had
found me!”

“What’s an alpha sub you ask? As easy as it is to explain, it is also difficult. We are not, as you might expect, the ‘leader of the pack’
of submissives but we can be. What we are, is in the forefront. We stand out. We make ourselves noticed. We are hardheaded, stubborn to fault, independent, yet needing firm control. We dont like decisions but we do want input. We challenge and expect challenges given to us. We have no qualms about stating our opinion, whether anyone agrees or not, or even if it is not our Sir’s thinking. But we will obey, we are not brats. We are intelligent, always wanting to learn, explore, push our limits in everything. Our zest for life knows no end. We have high expectations of our Doms and expect them to live up to them, but in the same note, we have high expectations of ourselves and demand and push ourselves to live up to them too. We know what we want (well mostly) and go after it. We arent ‘wait-ers’. At the same time we have learned what we dont want. And refused to settle for less. “

“We are like any sub: loving, yearning to serve, giving our loyalty, our trust to the One. But we are harder to handle, high maintanence in all aspects. The Dom needs to keep us on our toes, as much as we need to keep Him on His toes. Beginning to get the picture?

As like other submissives, we have our likes, dislikes, faults and good points. We are not perfect. We came to the lifestyle just like most submissives did, seeking our place. The difference is we cant be put into a mold. We have to make our own path and we need a strong Dom to handle/guide us.”

“We believe respect is earned, trust is earned, but good manners are a must, that our training as a submissive, protocal, is our honor. We will submit to One, but never to ‘many’. So just let another Dom come along and tell us what to do and we will probably either ignore Him or ell Him outright No. And this holds true whether we are collared or not. “

“We are flirts, exibitionists, teasers, playful even in scenes, laughter and living life with joy is a must. We arent jealous but we can be envious. I guess you could say we take everything to a greater depth.”

“The Man who can find the key to our submission, will have His hands full, but He will get total submission, loyalty, love, and respect
among other things. We will challenge Him every day, expect Him to be the “Dom” and hold Him in the highest regard above all others. And in eturn, we obey, not without question, but we obey, our submission to those Doms complete, whole. Our hearts will bear His name, lovingly rotecting it, soothing it’s needs, wants. Our bodies will be claimed, for His pleasure. And our souls, once given, are a treasure indeed for he will have our spirit, the flame that drives us.”

“The Man who captured me, owns me now, is an amazing Man. Every day i am blessed, even if i dont see the whole picture. I am a person to
Him, His submissive, His love. And He tells me I am the perfect girl for Him, an alpha sub. As much as it is hard to find a strong Dom, it
is just as hard to find an alpha sub. I am blessed, truly blessed that someone is watching over me, and helping me to find my true path, that which fate and circumstances have dictate i travel. And with me by His side, in His care, i know i will be all that i can. For He brings out
in me, all the best, and my desire to please Him grows each and every day. “

The complete post can be found here. And apparently, beta slaves are those who automatically do what they are ordered to do.. mindlessly obeying Master. Anyway, I’m sure I will write more on this later, but I should get to work now. *waves*

An alpha slave is not a common slave

It is not an object. Some slaves are sluts, they don't think a lot with their minds, they don't explore their soul or their soul's master. I call this slaves "objects", it is not pejorative. They are materialistics, they think only about sexe. To have hard sexe is their goals. Slavery is a travel but they don't travel a lot, they don't grow a lot, fire is in their body but not in their mind. Some Masters like to play with theses sexes toys but for a short time, they use them like a "kleenex"...theses sluts think a lot about their "me" and few about the "us" they have to build with their Masters. In fact they are not the extension of their Masters, they don't represent him. They are not a person, just a sex toy. Dom males like them for hard games.

An alpha slave is an human with a mind and a soul, he is at first a person. He is selfconsciousness. He is proud of himself, he is strong and not weak. He is looking for a Master who is able to guide him, wich is able to talk with him. He needs to opens his soul to his master and he needs that his master opens his soul to him. He can't be used only like an object because he is more. An alpha slave is a treasure for a Master. An alpha slave is not able to submit to all Masters. He wants to be one with him and he needs fusion. So it is a meeting beetween two persons at first. He is able to do it but with few Masters, often reals one, pure dominants who have a lot of experiences. But it could submit to a sweet Master ...i mean with a master who is empathe, who like to explore questions and to explore the soul of his boy. So the alpha slave ask for a travel and ask to be guided. But An alpha slave likes to manage other boys and to lead them, he does that naturaly, he is a natural trainer. He likes that, he likes to train others...but he will never be fully happy by this way: to dom or guide boys will give him few pleasures and his cock will be not hard, i mean he will be on the edge of his sexuality only with a master. He needs a guide...he is more than a basic slave so.

The basic slave is more weak, he is less independant and he is less consciousness of himself. The basic slave is not able to be a guide for other boy, he is not able to do that.

An alpha slave is a boy, not a Master, not a free, take care! He likes deeply to serve a Master, to loose the control of himself, especially with sexual games. He likes to please: you will not boring with him, he is always growing and try to be better and better...so Masters who like to see growing their boys will be pleased with an alpha boy. When he does a mistake he is deeply hurt, more than a basic boy...he needs punishments and hards one, but you must explain him why you do that and that you love him: this boy needs to understand his Master and how his master manages him: the basic slave does not need that. The alpha slave is very human, he is the most human "slave" of slaves. He accepts punishments and always respect his Master for that but the Master must be clever with that, the alpha slave will not accept injustices or lies. punishments is the tool for make growing this boy and to push his limits. He never challenges his Master, he trusts him. An alpha slave needs to be guided so his Master must have a strategy of guidance for his alpha slave boy, to help to explore questions, to know him perfectly. Ask him to have a diary, it will help him and his Master. For a alpha slave a guide-master is need. I call this type of Masters prime Masters. Few Masters are prime masters, it needs to have experiences and to be strong: to push limits of an alpha boy needs a lot of love but a lot of energy. Because of the fusion with his boy, the prime Master could be hurt to have to hurt deeply (by a punisment) his alpha boy. The prime master is able to disconnect himself of the fusion, the basic master could find to do that difficult. a alpha boy may put something of himself in the soul of his Master, the prime master know that and like that, he is able to control it, the basic Master could not do that. The basic slave is not able to put something in the sould of his Master.

There is no need "to break" an alpha slave, they are pure slaves...it is a mistake to do that, that is the difference betwwen a boy and an alpha boy. If the alpha boy have decided that you are his Master, you don't have to ask him more: his barrers will be down but only with his master. To submit to you means all for him. He only needs your love and your guidance. But never be weak with him.

I am sorry to tell You that few Masters are able to recognize when a man is an alpha boy, and very few Masters know how to manage them. Some thinks that this kind of slave are subs or frees. It is a big big mistake. They are may be the bettest slaves i have never met. Some alpha slaves are very famous on SL but few master knows they are alpha, because an alpha slave is often a perfect one with his master, only his master know he is alpha. Some Masters are lost with them and it is a pity to see a jewel broken by their lack of knowledges. They are differents, they need to be listened, they need to have a master with a pure soul and not a sick one, they need to be protected more than others.

As You know Gor on Sl is a game. We play with our brains and our feelings. It could hurt, it could be dangerous. This game learn a lot about ourself, it is interesting. It is since one year i am gorean, i can say i am not the same now. Some players on gor are only players, but i meet often real slaves and real Masters. I like to thinks a lot about what is mastering, because in my RL, this is not my world.

I think there is three levels of mastering:

The first level is obvious: a master can learn to his boy how to serve, dance, greet well. He teachs the goreans way of life. It is important to do that, but it is not really mastering, it is training. i have though for a long time that mastering was only this point. it needs to know the books;

The second level is about punishment. Punishment is important of course. it can be a pain or a pleasure (both sometimes). Punishment is necessary when a boy does a mistake. Punishment must be honest. Some Masters likes to punish their boy for their sadistic pleasures, some boys like that. It is very important not to outpass the limits of the boys and to be honest, because it is easy by this way to hurt a boy. There is a frontier. i don't like to punish with a whip for example my boy...but in fact, it is good for a boy, a sub , to have punishments, it helps him a lot. I discovered that. So i punish now with no bad conscious. it needs to have a soul and honesty.

The third level is about strategy. This is not easy to do. the Master must have a tactic with his boy? he has to guide his boy from the point A to B. For that he have to use a strategy. There are a lot of strategy: the boy can be warmed with few sexe, so he will done his best for serving well his Master and his gift will be more sexe. so the Master must always scan the mind of his boy and to detect where are his breaks, what is the good strategy for submitting him deeply. it needs to have a brain.

But up this levels, there is love. Leo told me something few months ago. he takes something from a boy and put something new. it was for me a mistery. I though it was the freedom of the boy which was taken and the protection and the guidance of the Master who was given. It is not wrong, but it is not enough. The Master takes the "me" of the boy for giving him the "us", the "we", and this "we" is love. Love is very important, respect too.

In RL i am a trainer, my job his to discover how to teach new things, what are the tools of teaching. I like a lot this 4 levels it helps a lot for playing on Sl Gor. A natural Master with experiences know that but few of them are able to use the good words for describing theses tools.

For me theses 4 points are my map, i am testing them and i think, it is nice.

I don't know if i agree with this text, but it is an interesting one ands it helps to think about what is slavery. I think there is a lot of sexual misery on Gor. Last days, i was wandering out of Gor to Gay's dungeons with an alt (not really for sex...by curiosity...). My biggest surprise was to meet some gorean Masters...and famous one. That means they are not happy with their boys, that means surely they go in this kind of aera for meeting tops i suppoze. It gives me a lot to think...i will try to be myself now and one with my feelings...and if i want on Gor to be bottom i will be as i will be top if this feeling is in my mind, with no shame. A Master at first is a free man, no?...


“This one has come upon some unhappy kajiri in his travels, and hopes with this scroll to describe the Secret to being a happy slave.
A boy uses the term “Secret” advisedly: There’s an abundance of scrolls in circulation for the training of kajiri, describing duties, etiquette, skills… even a prayer for slaves. Those are all useful things to know, but unless a kajirus has the right disposition, no amount of training will help him bring true pleasure to his Master.
It would be absurdly presumptuous of a kajirus to propose a “rule”, but a boy offers the following “gao’s Guideline”:
A kajirus desires nothing but to please his Master, and this he needs with every facet of his existence.
It is not enough that a kajirus needs this thing above all else: there can be nothing else.
If a kajirus truly lives with this sole desire, happiness for the Master and his slave will follow naturally. If not, the slave will always have conflict in his heart, and the Master will have bought only a captive, not a true kajirus.
Praise and love as epiphenomena. It can be very difficult for a new slave to not seek praise from his Master; some even seek their Master’s love (kar). This is all doomed to bring misery: the true slave seeks only to please his Master, and knowledge of that Master’s pleasure is the only reward for a slave. If it further pleases the Master to give the slave some token of his pleasure, such as candy, a pat on the head, a word of praise, then the slave’s reward must be not the token, but the Master’s pleasure in giving it.
The same is true of love. If a Master is pleased by the love of a slave, then and only then shall that slave love his Master. If it happens that a Master derives pleasure from loving a slave, then the slave must accept this love because it pleases the Master to give it. A slave must not desire the love of his Master, but rather must desire only the pleasure his Master may obtain from feeling that love.
It seems that many slaves have trouble with prioritizing their emotions when it comes to love. Perhaps as some Urth barbarism, many seem to think love is the ultimate reward, and pleasing service is the means by which love is obtained. This is backwards, and such a slave simply must undergo whatever Priest King magic is necessary to get the neurons in his midbrain wired correctly. A “slave” who seeks love will never be able to get it from a Master; a slave who seeks to please his Master may attain love as a side-effect, but love itself is not rewarding to a slave, rather only the possibility that by being loved he has pleased his Master.
Being and becoming. Different slaves surely follow different paths to acquiring the sole desire of pleasing their Masters. Some may be born with it, some feel it within them on Urth and are driven by it to Gor, some grow into it after arrival on Gor–either before or after capture by their Master. It seems that most kajiri, sadly, never attain it.
All manner of pathological behaviors–khoses, really–are manifested in a slave that has not (yet?) adopted this mindset.
It is also possible for a Master to distract His slaves from attending to His pleasure, or hiding that which will please Him. If a slave doesn’t know what he can do to please his Master, then that slave is going to be miserable–and that Master will not be pleased. Indeed, the Master may become displeased with the slave. The Master might then punish the slave–perhaps giving that slave menial tasks that, when performed, are not even pleasing to the Master.
There is currently a lot of interest in gladiator-like Slave Fighting. While a boy celebrates this to the extent that it pleases the slaves’ Owners as a kind of entertainment, it is deeply troubling that some Owners have turned to this as an outlet for the energy of their kajiri, to keep the slaves from getting bored. Now, if this is a genuine motivation, somebody–either Free or slave–is out of touch with what a slave desires. A slave cannot possibly be bored, unless that slave just doesn’t know how to please his Master. This one daily curses the sun for again too soon setting and rising, with not enough ahns to even begin all he knows would please his Master.
It is a slave’s duty to figure out what will please his Master, but it’s a wise Master who will give the slave the one thing he needs: that Master’s own pleasure. A Master who orders a slave to do something that is not pleasing to Himself may be starting a spiral of mutual sorrow and despair.
Honor among kajiri. When true slaves greet each other as brothers and sisters, they are not expressing some fraternity of debasement as some Frees may suppose. Rather, they are honoring each other for their common achievement of totally selfless devotion and service. It is not expected that a Free Person can comprehend this “honor,” but this one assures You that honor is as strong between good slaves as between the most noble of Frees. Slave honor is, of course, expressed with utmost humility–else it would vanish in the breath with which it is spoken.”
- Gao Niangao, First Boy of Arquana

John Norman has invented the concept of "passion Master" and "passion slave", it is on the book number 12 -Gor. J.Norman thinks that all females are sub, but some females are less sub than other. He writes that a female needs to be sub of a man for discovering her feminity. For strong women, only few men can sub them.

The passion Master is the Master who make you a total slave, especially if you are strong and can't submit yourself. The passion slave is the slave who make you an absolute Master in the other sense, he is able to create in your mind top's feelings. It is normal for a slave to resist to a Master, because he is frightened by submission and can't understand that, for becoming him or herself, he or she has to be a total sub.

For gays it is a bit difficult and, we need imagination now. Norman is straight...and gays are not one, they are a lot of type of gays:

*Few gays are tops and natural Masters. If you meet one, don't think he will cap You. He does not need You. He is looking for a natural slave. He is relax, he is not often a combattant. He knows it is easy to sub you, he is the cat you are the mouse. Slavery is a way of life for them and sex is a very few part of the game.

*Some gays are top but they are not natural dominant. Mastery is a sex's game for them and only that. They cap easily men for using them for sex, slavery is only for sex for them.

*A lot of gays are top and bottom. They like sometimes to be sub, a master for them is a dildo. They can't stay for a long time a slave or a master. A lot of them have alts. A lot of warriors and outlaws are top and bottom and to be cap is their fantasy for exploring their sub's feelings.

*Some gays are bottoms but are too strong for being sub. They can be Master or just free, sexually they can play the top. They have not meet yet their top, their passion Master for becoming a slave.

*Some men are natural slave, they know it and sub themself. They are happy when they meet natural Master.

it is hypothesis of course...

i am reading "imaginative sexe" writen by J.Norman in the end of seventies. It is his theory about sexuality. It is a very interesting book, i have never readen a such book in my life.

"Imaginative sexe" is a theory about our sexuality, it is not a roman. It gives us a lot of keys for understanding our fantasies, why some like to be top and others to be sub, what does means to play and role play with sexe, what is the respect of his partner too. For Norman, society formates us, gives normes about "the good sexuality", it is a disaster for him. For Norman it kills sex, it kill our creativity. Norman wants a new sexual revolution and it is "imaginative sexe". For norman we have to use our mind, our imagination for exploring sex and discovers new feelings.

For example he writes that a rape is a common fantaisy of men and women. It is in our gene. But to rape is a crime for Norman, because we are humans and we have humanity. The solution for him is to role play the rape, with love, with respect, with kindness and to stop immediately if our partner is hurt and feels bad. You have just to switch off the light in your bedroom, to hunt your wife and capture her, to leash her (softly of course)...he tells us that what it is important is that your wife can feel that it is really possible than you would be able to rape her...and after you fuck her deeply...but of course, it is just a role play and she is agreed with the game.

"Imaginative sexe" is a role play, it is to create feelings in the mind of our partner, theses feelings are close of our animal's brain. The top will play with the mind of his sub....and, be sure that for this time, i like very very much this idea. It opens me a galaxy of incredible fantasies for SL, i am not sure than in Rl it will be so easy to do that with my BF.

Gor is the fantasy, the imaginative sex of Norman, it is the world he has built with his wife for having wonderful sexe, but in the brain of Norman, it is just imagination, Gor can't be real and the gorean's way can be taken seriously as a way of life, 24H/ 24H. Gor is only the dream of a man.

It gives us keys for having, in our real live, wonderful sex's party with our partner. Norman trusts a lot about fidelity. There is a lot of examples too, it is very amazing. This book opened my mind in RL. I understand now a lot. I understand my dear Leo now, i understand my self, i understand why i was shocked but the role play of some crazy men and why i was right to be shocked...i have the answers, it is wonderful to have answers, i was looking for them since a year ago, i am the most happy man of Gor now.

So you have now to read this book, because it is the real theory about sexe of Normal. Gor is not the theory of norman about sex, there is a big confusion in the mind of people about that.

A new boy submited to me this sunday, this boy is called Riven Cummings. He was a free before, a very closed (and beloved) friend and i was his mentor. I know since a long time he was a sub and may be a natural slave, but i believed it was possible for him to be a free and i helped him for that. This week end he told me he wanted to be my slave and my collar went on his neck sunday.

Riven was (is) a good friend (SL and RL)and he loves me since a long time. To be my slave is a way for him to discover more himself (it is an initiation)and to be closer of me. I am now his gorean Master, and there is a problem:

It is in fact a very difficult choice for him. He has strong feelings for me in SL but in RL too. As you know, it takes times to become a good slave and the first month you make a lot of mistakes, it is difficult to learn how to serve well a free...and my duty is to tell him when he is wrong and if needs to punish him (he is a bit rebel). He is 21 in RL. It is very difficult for him because he wants to be perfect and to please me but he makes always mistakes and mistakes, each words i say to him about his mistakes is a dagger he receives in his body, in his hearth and because i am empathe, i see the blood running on his soul.... It is breaking him,. He suffers to in RL. He is stressed, nervous, anxious now in RL, it is incredible but it is the truth. He does not sleep well...ok it is his choice, ok i am not his nurse...so what this experience can teach us so?

I think it is may be the most difficult choice for a new slave to become the boy of his friend, of his love. Feelings (real feelings) create interferences...it is may be more easy to become a slave and to learn how to be a slave with a slaver you don't know or a Master who capture you. The slaver is nothing for you, you have no feelings for him (except fear but not love). When the boy is wrong, the slaver correct him. It is not the same to be corrected by his "love"...

I hope Riven will find peace and serenity soon...

Silver Tree of Tabor is a new land raising from Thassa. It is a peninsula, at the north of the city of Tabor and at the south of White Water Fall. The land is a border's land, it is a mixt of the landscape of the north and the south of Gor. The palace is the Taj Mahal, tahari's style and the gardens of Grenada are exoticals and wonderfuls. The city of Silver Tree is more traditionnal, north's gorean style but with a lot of flowers and palms.

Mountains are not exoticals. The borders of the land are exoticals because of the warmed stream of the sea, the center of the land is colder, so palms can't survive...it is classic's plants.

It is a lot of work to build a sim, especially a lower prim sims. But it is a fantastic challenge. Each days we have new visitors, it is so nice to meet new people and to explain them what is Gor.

I met Tiberius Browner, he is a good man and i like him a lot, bearded Munro and Levy Munro too. The soul of theses men are nice, may be we will become good friends a day and spend time for discovering each others, may be not. Tabor is growing, because of our sim, because a new full sim is built: it will be the city and the aera for citizens. Some owners of Tabor have understood that silver tree is good for Tabor, it will help to attract more players. Silver Tree is different of Tabor and the differences gives value. Uniformity is boring. Some can be afraid by differences...when fear is in the heart of a man, he does not see the reality at it is, his dark fantasy are right for him and he makes mistakes.

All are welcome, please visit our land, tabor's city and the sims around: 12 sims are connected now, it is fantastic.